Bhavyalakshmi R K
G-Mail address: Bhavyalakshmirk@gmail.com
Sunday, November 15, 2015
Day 7: Experiment 7
Day 7: Next day on words I tried to make more
sentences, and lastly I tried to speak English in front of mirror. Because I
get nervousness while talking with
others in English. And I get scared while taking individual presentation. So, I
thought that it will help me to get out from nervousness and scare.
Day 6: Experiment 6
Day 6: According to last day experiment I did some
sentences of new words. But I found mistakes in it. Then again I took help from
my friend. My friend suggested me.
Day 3 : Experiment 3
Day 3: As I experimented in the last day. I took some
suggestions from my friends (who studied in English medium school). I took help
from them to write blog. I explained my opinions about different posts and
experiments in local language. They helped me to write in English. Because of
this I got some new external knowledge as well as it helped me to get ideas
about new words.
Tuesday, November 10, 2015
Experiment 2
Day 2:
I collected some books from the library And I started to read books. But I found difficult to understand the new words and to speak with friends. Then I postponed my
experiment to next day.
7 Days Experiment
Hi… Guys, now I decided to take 7 days experiment to improve
my knowledge, and communication skill.
Day 1: This is the first day of experiment. When I
thought of experimenting my knowledge and the communication skills, the first
thing came to my mind was in which way I can improve my communication skills
and knowledge. How can I improve my knowledge and communication Skills. I was
really confused that how can I begin with experiment.
My mother tongue is Kannada, whenever I want to speak with
my friends I usually prefer to speak in my mother tongue only. Then on the
first day of my experiment I decide to speak in English with my friends.
A day in my life
Hi guys, I am Bhavya from mangalore. I am
pursuing my post-graduation MBA in JKSHIM Nitte. A normal day in my life usually starts with a
lot of complaining from my side, mostly about having to get up. I seriously
love to stay up late and to get up late. But, it is necessary to get up early in the
morning.
The one Person from whom I learnt the most
Lessons My Mom Taught Me
Anyone who knows my mom knows she's one of the
most generous people in the world. She's always happy to lend a hand or help
someone out if she can. It's from her that I've learned to be (or tried to be)
a giving person.
·
Throughout my life, my mom has always shown me
how to embrace the present moment. She never seems to dwell on the past or
stress overly about the future. She is one of the few people I know who really
knows how to live in the now.
·
Between dealing with me, my sister, my brother
and my dad, my mom has developed an amazing ability to be patient. This is
something I truly admire since I'm not the most patient person in the world. I
hope someday I can be as patient as my mom is.
·
My mom has always been open-minded and willing
to embrace whatever I happen to be into at the moment, which is a very
inspiring quality!
·
Through ups and downs, good and bad, my mom has
always remained supportive of her loved ones. I'm sure at times it was hard to
be supportive of my choices, but she has always been my #1 encourager.
·
Honestly, my mom is the most positive person I
know. I strive to be positive, but she is positive. No matter what the
situation is, she always looks for the good in it and, more often than not,
helps me see the good too.
·
My mom really takes interest in others' lives.
Whether it's her best friend or the woman ringing up her groceries at the
store, my mom is deeply interested in the lives of others. This is something I
really admire and need to explore more in my own life.
·
My mom knows when to let things go and she
recognizes when something I've said or done really isn't about her, but instead
is about something going on with me. Not taking things personally is one of the
best ways to live a happy life.
·
As I said in point #1, my mom is extremely
generous. She's always willing to help out her friends in times of need. Even
though she doesn't always get the same thing in return, she's always willing to
give and give and give.
·
My mom usually has a very calm demeanor and,
when presented with a situation that could result in panic, she takes a step
back and reminds everyone to calm down.
·
In general, moms are good at notice the little
things. They notice when something isn't quite right and they strive to make it
better. Or, they pick up on something small but wonderful and make note of it.
My mom's great at paying attention and noticing life's details.
·
My mom has always been supportive of my personal
development and she's always encouraged me to think about who I am and who I
want to be in the future. She's inspired me to work on becoming the best me I
can possibly be.
·
. One of the greatest things about
my mom is her persistence. If she wants to get something done, she will find a
way -- no matter what. As she always says, "Where there's a will, there's
a way." I wouldn't believe this if I hadn't seen it come to life in her so
many times.
·
My mom knows what she believes in and she stays
true to those beliefs. It's important to recognize what's important to you and
what matters most to you, and my mom has manage to do that -- and to stay loyal
to those things that matter most.
·
Staying true to herself is another one of my
mom's great qualities. She knows who she is and she is herself in any
situation. It's not easy to be consistent in this way, but my mom is always who
she wants to be, no matter what.
·
Much like me, my mom is no wallflower. If she
has an option about something, she'll tell you about it. I love her ability to
say what's on her mind and I find it inspiring to watch her speak up for what
she believes in.
·
She taught me how to Protect our loved
ones.
·
Surround yourself with what you love. Like
so many people, my mom has made the choice to surround herself with people and
things that she loves. As I've gotten older, I've realized just how important
it is to make the things around you the things you love most.
·
Practice kindness daily. My mom is,
by far, one of the kindest people I know. She's one of those people who does
all of the little things to make others' days better, and for that I really
admire her. I must remind myself daily to be kind and I hope someday I can be
just like my mom.
·
Life is full of changes and unexpected
circumstances, but my mom is one of the best adapters. When faced with change,
she does what she can to make the most of it. As someone who doesn't love
change, I find this quality immensely important.
·
Accept what you cannot change. One
of the reasons I think my mom is so great at adapting to change is because she
recognizes when she cannot change a situation and she accepts that. As I said
before, she will do her best to get what she wants, but she also knows how to
accept what is.
·
Donate time and money to others. Because
of my mom, I'm inspired constantly to donate and give to others. I know that
without her influence I wouldn't be donating clothes every season. She has
inspired me and I am grateful for that.
·
Give energy to get energy. "Energetic"
and "full of life" are two things I would definitely use to describe
my mom. She is always full of energy and, for that reason, she gets a lot of
energy coming back at her. I've noticed when I give out energy, I always get it
back (just like my mom!).
·
Help others help themselves. While,
of course, my mom is a huge fan of helping others, she's also really great at
helping them help themselves. She's taught me and my sister how to do things so
we could do them for ourselves. As great as it is to help, it's even great to
help others help themselves.
·
Be a good listener. My mom is an
A-M-A-Z-I-N-G listener and I think it's
such a wonderful quality to have. It can be really hard to listen to people
sometimes, but my mom has turned listening into an art. (So much so that even
random strangers will confess their life stories to her!)
·
Share your experiences. I think part
of the reason my mom is such a great listener is because she's also a great
talker. She's open to sharing her experiences with others, which is great. So
many people (myself included) hold back so much, and it's wonderful to see
people like my mom sharing themselves with others.
·
Work hard for what you want. Nothing
good comes without a lot of hard work, and no one knows this better than my
mom. If you really want something, you have to go after it. You have to make it
happen. My mom is so inspiring in this way because she has taught me to really
go after what I want in life.
Encourage others to be their best. Throughout
my life, my mom has always been encouraging me to be the best I could be, and
often her ideas of what I could be were so much better than my own. It's
because of her that I believe in myself and believe that I have the ability to
be the best possible me.
·
Appreciate what works for you. Some people
go through life very unaware of what's working for them. Not my mom. She knows
what's working for her and she focuses on it, a tactic I'm trying to work on
every day in my own life. She makes the most of what works!
·
Choose your friends wisely. This
seems like simple advice, but it's actually very important. Who you surround
yourself with says a lot about you, and I've learned from my mom that it's so
important to choose friends carefully. Because of her choosiness, she has a
great group of friends!
·
Forgive others' mistakes. I've made
a lot of mistakes in my life, but my mom is always the first to forgive me.
I've seen her forgive others too, and it's truly amazing to watch her
forgiveness in action. Forgiving can be a very hard thing, but my mom has
taught me its value.
·
Highlight strengths, not weaknesses. Many
people aren't even aware of their strengths or weaknesses, but my mom is one of
the few that knows what her strengths are and makes the most of them. She knows
what she's good at and she highlights those points. (She also does that for
other people as well!)
·
Treat others the way they want to be
treated. It's tempting to treat others how you want
to be treated, but my mom's selflessness has taught me that it's even better to
treat others how they want to be treated. I've learned from her to pay
attention and to treat others in a way that makes them feel great.
"I found a Rs.1,000 note on the ground......."
I found a Rs. 1,000 note on the ground
Hai Friends, I am Bhavya. I want to speak about " If I found Rs. 1,000 note on the ground What will I do?" First of all I will see a person around me. then I will ask that “ Have you lost something”. According to his answer I will judge whether
this money is his or not. I will find the right loser of the note. If
I will not find correct loser. Then I will approach to surrounding area and
leave a message of the lost thing. I will not disclose about the note to
anybody. I will say it as “something”. I will also give my contact number to
them. After that I will wait for some time. If I does not find loser.
Then I will find most needy poor student or people. And I will give this whole money to him. i won't take that money for personaluse. because I have not
earned that money . I cannot use that money for me. If I am not finding a needy person then I will give it to a
social Hope school or any social charity. This is my only thinking about this
money. I think it is the test of almighty, that's it. if we use that money we will lose double of that. so.
My Opinion about How to be a Good Friend
My
opinion about How to be a Good Friend
“If you want to
have friends, you must show yourself friendly.”
Being a good friend isn't always easy,
but taking the time to nurture a lasting friendship is worth every ounce of
effort. As the years pass, some people will stay by your side, but many won't,
and you'll realize that each friendship you keep is priceless. Of course, to
have a good friend, you must be one. To be a good friend and deepen a
friendship to make it last, just follow these steps.
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Keep
your promises. Don't
ever make a promise that you can't keep -- or at least don't make a habit of it.
If you just cannot go, give your friend a gift and tell him or her sorry. Do
not break any such promise, as that will hurt your friend.
·
B
a giver not a taker.
·
Be
dependable. Being
dependable is one of the most important aspects of being a good friend. Your
friend will need you for support, especially in hard times. Nobody likes a
fake, and nobody wants one for a close friend. It's hard to rely on a person
who doesn't behave in a consistent and trustworthy way. We all know
well-intentioned but flaky people who say, "Okay, I will..." but
never follow through. If that's you, know that you're eroding your friends'
trust; eventually they'll stop believing what you say. If you're not sure you
can do something, don't agree to do it and flake out later. Instead, be honest
about the fact that you're not sure if you can make it.
·
Apologize
when you've made a mistake.
If you want your friends to trust you, then you can't act like you're flawless.
If you know you've made a mistake, own up to it instead of being in denial.
When you say sorry, you should mean it. Let your friends hear the sincerity in
your voice instead of thinking that you don't really care how they feel.
·
Be
honest. If you want
to be a good friend and to have people trust you, then you have to be honest
about your feelings, about your friends' actions, and about how you feel about
your friendship. If you're honest about how you feel, that will open up direct
lines of communication with your friends and will make them more likely to open
up to you. If your friend hurt you, don't be afraid to talk about it; if something
is upsetting you, don't feel too shy to open up to your friend about it.
·
Be
real. Connect with
people whom you value on a deep level if you want to have sustainable,
long-term friendships. Invest in people you can be yourself around. If your
behavior lacks sincerity, your friendship won't last.
·
Don't
use people. Good
friendships don't arise from hoping someone else's popularity or networks will
rub off on you
·
A
friendship is about give and take.
Sure, it may be really convenient that one of your friends gives you a ride to
school every day, but make sure that you do something for that friend in
return.
·
Be
loyal. If your
friend tells you something in confidence, keep it and don't talk about it with
anyone else, just as you'd expect your friend to do for you. Don't discuss your
friend behind his or her back, and don't spread rumors about the confidences
they've imparted to you. Part of being loyal is understanding the importance of
a long-lasting and stable friendship.
·
Be
respectful. Good
friends show respect for each other by being openly and mutually supportive. If
your friend has certain values and beliefs that don't align with your own,
respect his or her choices and be open to hearing more about them. If you want
your friend to trust you, then your friend should feel comfortable voicing
opinions that you may not agree with, or discussing a new perspective with you.
·
Be
a good listener.
·
Help
your friends deal with their struggles.
Let your friend know that you can give him a shoulder to cry on during this
tough time. If your friend feels less alone, it'll be easier for them to deal
with their troubles. If all your friend wants to do about the problem is to
talk, that's fine at first, but you should help your friend find practical
solutions to his problems.
·
Learn
to forgive. If you
want your friendship to last, then you should be able to forgive your friend
and to move forward. If you hold a grudge and let your bitterness and
resentment build up, then you won't be able to move forward. Recognize that nobody's
perfect and that if your friend is sincerely sorry and if he or she didn't do
something too horrible, that you should move past it.
·
Accept
your friend for who he or she is.
·
You
don't have to spend a lot of time and money to be a good friend. The best gifts
are often handmade and come from the heart. A phone call can mean as much as a
visit.
·
A
friend who is only available at school or work is still a friend. Be very glad
for that special kind of friendship associated with the place where you share
time together.
·
If
your friend makes a promise and doesn't keep it then don't do the same to them
or you will keep repeating the pattern.
·
Honest
communication is a basic foundation in a friendship. If you and your friend
can't talk to each other freely then you are set up for a difficult and
possibly doomed relationship.
·
If
your friend is starting to make new friends, don't turn jealous. No one likes a
jealous friend. Have faith in your friendship. However, if your friend is
ignoring you because of this friend, talk to them about it. They have no right
to ditch their best friend.
·
No
one likes an insulting friend, so be careful when you tease them! If your
friend asks you to stop, heed the request and stop right away. Otherwise you
will end up with no one.
·
Don't
share your feelings when you know the person can't be trusted because she/he
might use it against you someday.
·
If
your friend doesn't treat you well while you treat them well, then there's no
reason to stay friends. Don't stay close friends with anyone who doesn't treat
you well.
(source: personal opinion as well as internet)Rich Vs Poor People
Rich Vs. Poor people Principles
- Rich people believe "I create my life. "Poor people believe, "Life happens to me."
- Rich people play the money game to win. Poor people play the money game to not lose.
- Rich people are committed to being rich. Poor people want to be rich.
- Rich people think big. Poor people think small.
- Rich people focus on opportunities. Poor people focus on obstacles.
- Rich people admire other rich and successful people. Poor people resent rich and successful people.
- Rich people associate with positive, successful people. Poor people associate with negative or unsuccessful people.
- Rich people are willing to promote themselves and their value. Poor people think negatively about selling and promotion.
- Rich people are bigger than their problems. Poor people are smaller than their problems.
- Rich people are excellent receivers. Poor people are poor receivers.
- Rich people choose to get paid based on results. Poor people choose to get paid based on time.
- Rich people think "both." Poor people think "either/or."
- Rich people focus on their net worth. Poor people focus on their working income.
- Rich people manage their money well. Poor people mismanage their money well.
- Rich people have their money work hard for them. Poor people work hard for their money.
- Rich people act in spite of fear. Poor people let fear stop them.
- Rich people constantly learn and grow. Poor people think they already know.
(source:internet)
My favorite flower Rose
I would like to speak about my most favorite flower rose. There
are no words to describe how much I love these flowers be it white or pink or
yellow or red. A rose is not just a flower that grows from the ground, it’s a
gift from the heaven. Its fragrance and the soft petals that glisten, oh lovely
rose, When I see you, the day seems so bright. Flowers are wonderful creation
of nature. The nature conveys messages of love, beauty, peace, harmony and
endurance through flowers to the whole world. My favorite flower is rose. I
like red rose the most, because it is the most beautiful flower according to
me. It is found everywhere in my country. We use flowers to offer our respect
worship to god in temple. Red rose has become a symbol of love and hence it is
used to express love for each other. The red roses are always in high demand
near some special days like Valentine’s Day, Teacher’s Day or Mother Day, when
many people across the world give red roses to each other to express their
feelings.
I like red rose because of its state of being a rose and yet
the ability to give message of the nature to us. Apart from being a symbol of
love, it also gives us important message about beauty. It tells us that
apparent beauty has a short life. It also gives us a message of love. We can
express our love to our lover. I would like dedicate that rose with all my
friends. Without read don’t comment my friend it tells us to bear pain and
spread love in the world. I think the nature has made this flower not only
beautiful but mysterious. The more we try to understand it the more we fall in
love with it.
Why are Roses my favorite?
1. Roses are
beautiful and colorful.
2. They
smell great.
3. They make
me smile.
I Love Red Roses.
Roses are awesome because:
• They make
great gifts.
• You can
grow them in your backyard.
• You can
make beautiful flower arrangements with them.
I'm even great fan of Rose flower, i specifically love
double shade color roses...
Monday, November 9, 2015
Success
The definition
of success differs from one person to another. Most people work
hard throughout their lives to achieve success. That might mean acquiring an
education, being able to take care of one’s family, achieving a life’s
ambition, or making money. It is not uncommon to hear people confess that the
people whom they thought were very successful in life turned out to be rather
miserable. Some of the individual who are successful especially when measured
in terms of material wealth are often afraid of other people trying to take
advantage of them.
When one is looking for success, one should concentrate on one’s
strengths rather than pursuing goals in those areas where they are likely not
to enjoy a certain degree of achievement. There are many areas in one’s life
that are generally considered important. These include the self, business,
family, environment, material things, community, work, spiritually, business,
and friends. In order to be truly successful, one needs to balance each of
these areas. It is rather obvious that these areas cannot be of equal
importance to everyone, and this is why people tend to work towards being
successful in some areas in their lives while neglecting the other areas. It
is, however, not a good idea to ignore any of these parts even though it is
important to set priorities.
“Failures
are our best teachers, they are the mirrors who show us our real face”. Every
successful man fails at some time. Failures not only tell us about our weaknesses, shortcomings, lack of analyzing
things properly, lack of competitiveness, lack of preparations, lack of efforts,
but also give us encouragement to try again with more preparations, with more
labour and with more hard work. Failures are the stepping stones to
success. So if you can manage to learn
from failures, you will definitely reach where you started out to go. Making a mistake is not a crime, the ability
to learn from it contribute to lasting success. Extract the lesson to be learnt
from failure and try again with redoubled vigor. Facing failure make one
strong, more wise and more resolute, spur them on to greatest efforts. There is
no failure in truth save from within; unless we are beaten there, wear we are
bound to succeed.One who try, is always the better than the one who dare not to
try, only a person who dares to try can have a chance of success. Blessed are
those, who once failed, is a saying worth to follow. It means that the failures
make us capable to evaluate our shortcomings and purge us to reach the higher
ideals, higher planks.
Abraham Lincoln failed very many times in his life, but never got
frustrated and fought with more determination, with full devotion and became
the President of America. Indian freedom fighters including Mahatma Gandhi,
Jawaharlal Lal Nehru, Vallabhbhai Patel, saw face of failures not once but
several times, but never daunted or became desperate they all had fought to
attain the sacred goal of attaining freedom, and as a result, they attained
it.Nothing that comes too easily is worth satisfying? When you want to succeed,
be ready to pay the price for it, which include braving failures and setbacks
and keep persistent with your efforts till the goal is achieved. Mere talking
idle, day dreaming or aimless drifting will not take you to goal, but only divert
your attention and dissipate your energy and strength. Hardships, obstacles,
failures are the various moments in the way of success. They are not to be
evaded but to face them bravely, courageously and with double vigor.
A Child can seldom learn to walk, without making sustained and
sincere efforts in the process tumbling and falling down a number of times. His
failure never deter him to stop standing again. The doggedness in the child’s
resolve lies in making any number of attempts to stand up and walk whatever be
the pain or fear of fall.
The failures are the real path-indicators of success. The failures
give us clues to rectify our mistakes and tell us how to club our efforts in
the right direction so that we get success one day positively. So failures are
the pillars of success, stepping stones to success.Nothing motivates like
success. Nothing teaches like failure…And you need both to go up in life.
From young age, failure is my co-passenger in the journey towards
growth. I have met with lot of failures in my school days from the angle of
studies, sports, making friends and reputation with teachers. In X Standard, I
used to fail in all the major subjects like English, Maths, Science and social
science. But, from god’s blessings during my final exam I cleared all the subjects
and was promoted to PUC. Till then I never realized the importance of
education. I formed a small group of friends in school, it was interacting and
being with them I learned the basic etiquettes of life. Things slowly started
changing from PUC. I have never failed even in a single subject in any kind of
an exam till today. I honestly believe that it is better to be a failure at
something you love than to be a total success doing something that you hate.It
is very necessary to work hard to achieve success. But psychologists say that
if we love our work, we will never find it hard. There is no substitute for
hard work. At the same time, there should be a purpose and a noble goal at
which to aim and advance. We must decide our aim in life or what we want most
out of our life and then constantly work for it.The early attempts towards the
goal of success are the hardest. The more our efforts get success, the easier
it becomes to do so. In the end it becomes our habit. Then success follows
success. Nothing is impossible to a man who has a purpose and the perseverance
to persist with it. Self-confidence, courage and strong will power are
necessary to get success.Fortune favours the brave. There is no gain without
taking risk. So success is not a matter of luck, it depends on firm
determination and full preparation.
I do believe that people can obtain qualities of both failure and
success. Everyone has encountered failures and successes in lives but why are
we blaming God if we encounter failure? Do you blame Him if you encounter
success? Of course not. We always keep
asking ourselves "Why me? Why am I a failure? What did I do wrong?"
It seems like failure become hindrance in continuing your gorgeous life but how
can we turn failure into success.
In this world, people
experience success and failure in life. It is a reality that is needed to be
accepted in order to be prepared in facing the world. Making you realize that
our life is full of fantastic mysteries and life is boring without success and
failure. Failure can be found in the four corners of the world anytime and
anywhere. it may also attack you, whether you like it or not. You can
experience it which can make your life really miserable but you need to be
tough and ready to face it when you are in a downfall. Facing it will help you
a lot in surviving those failures and do not forget to pray and talk to God for
giving you an opportunity to become a stronger and better person. Failure acts
as a door to open the next chapters of
your life. I believe that turning the next page of the book helps to continue
your life rather than closing it, do nothing and escape away from it. Just
believe in yourself that no matter what happens God is willing to help you and
He is always with you, think win-win.
Also, failure gives
knowledge and it also educates us. It teaches us on how to be burly. We may cry
on one's shoulder and we can share our problems with them and also we promise
to them that we will fight and stand up. Failure motivates us to pursue our
dreams, when we fail to get high grades, we are more determined to study well
because of the failure that we already encountered. It is also a fact that we
can make failure as a growing experience. Even a seemingly definitive failure
can prompt fresh thinking, a change in direction. Failure makes one free to
take risks because there's less to lose. Often it brings a resurgence of
energy, an awareness of new possibilities.
What seems like failure now
may later prove beneficial. We often assume that everyone is either a success
or a failure. The truth is that infinitive degrees of both are possible. God
gives a trial for us to become burly, it is a not a hindrance in our success
because we can turn failure into success if we want to.
(source:personal as well as internet source)
Sunday, November 8, 2015
My Mother
My mother is the most important person in my life. The problem is, I cannot really express how I
feel about her in just words. My mother is not my whole life, but she is a
really big part of it. My whole world does not only revolve around her, but she
is the most influential person who inspires me. My mother is the most important
person in my life. She is an inspiration to everything I do. I would not call
her a friend, but she is an extraordinary person. She has been in my life since
I was born and she will always be in my life no matter what happens. She is the
one who has suffered to bring me into this world. I have learnt to love her
from the day I was born. My mother was the first person to teach me to draw and
walk, and she was with me when I took my first step ever! She has taught me to
believe in people and not to have grudges against one another. She always
encouraged me to go along when I was ready to give up. She makes sure that I
was safe and happy throughout my childhood. It is the unconditional love that
my mother feels that drives these
feelings.
I know her very well, and I had learned to love her since
the day we first met. Relatives always tell me stories about my birth. They
tell me how important I was to my mom. I was the foundation of her joy,
strength, peace and love. She has never lied to me about my father. She was
always straightforward. She explained things very simply, like she knew
everything. I thank her for telling me
the truth.She has taught me all I need to know to live life. She taught me how to feel. Well, she did not
only do that. She showed me how to handle these feelings of anger, fear, guilt,
joy, sadness, excitement, hate and anxiety. She also showed me how to give and
take. I learned from her that giving is a lot harder than taking, but the former is much more
satisfying when it is done. She told me that giving makes one happy. I am sure
she is right because half of her life, she has been giving me and my brother
and sister what we need, and in spite of all that years of giving, she is
happy. Though very slowly, I am learning how to give freely.
It is hard to describe the feeling that a mother has towards
her children. Describing a mother's love
is virtually impossible. It is a feeling that can only truly be understood by
those that experience it.
Famous saying states that "God could not be everywhere and so he invented mothers"!She has taught me to always try my best, to treat everyone equally, to not give up when things get hard. She tells me to at all times be honest because in the end, lies always hurt more. When I make decisions and she doesn’t always agree with them, she makes sure that I know that she is behind me all the way because she wants me to always be happy. She has taught me right from wrong and the significance of self-respect. She taught me everything from how to eat healthy and dress myself, to how to react to any situation. I would be lost without my mother, I can trust her, and she’s really important to me. My mother is my security blanket. No matter how bad of a day she had, she will always be there to listen to me. No one loves us like our mothers, no one is willing to sacrifice everything for us like our mothers. If someone asks you “Who is the best woman in your life ?”, I bet you will say it is my mother. And if someone asks me like that, my answer also is my mother.
Famous saying states that "God could not be everywhere and so he invented mothers"!She has taught me to always try my best, to treat everyone equally, to not give up when things get hard. She tells me to at all times be honest because in the end, lies always hurt more. When I make decisions and she doesn’t always agree with them, she makes sure that I know that she is behind me all the way because she wants me to always be happy. She has taught me right from wrong and the significance of self-respect. She taught me everything from how to eat healthy and dress myself, to how to react to any situation. I would be lost without my mother, I can trust her, and she’s really important to me. My mother is my security blanket. No matter how bad of a day she had, she will always be there to listen to me. No one loves us like our mothers, no one is willing to sacrifice everything for us like our mothers. If someone asks you “Who is the best woman in your life ?”, I bet you will say it is my mother. And if someone asks me like that, my answer also is my mother.
With me, my mother is the best woman in the world. No one
can replace her in my heart. I admire my
mother, I don’t know why she is always busy with daily chores, taking care of
my family but she never say she is tired. Every day, she is the first person in
my family, who wakes up very early. Then, she makes breakfast for our family and chores then she go to work
for a company and return at later. After the dinner, my mom washes the dishes.
Sometimes, I ask her to help, but she says: “It is fine, you should go upstairs
and do your homework”. Mom always wake up very early, and Mom is the last
person can take a break after a busy day. I realize that without my Mom, my
father and I cannot have the clean house, the delicious meal and the clothes
which always iron straight. Mom gives me and my brother and sister all her
love.
She loves us more than herself. Her love for us is great
like the ocean, the universe and nothing can replace it. Making my mother cry
is the worst thing, but I did. My mother didn’t know anything until my school
had a parents conference. She was shocked when she saw my report. My grade was
going down. She asked me why my grade went down, I was quiet and looked at her.
It seemed like my mother knew the reason why. She was quiet, stared at me and
sign.
Suddenly, I saw tears from her eyes, she cried. She told me
many times that I should concentrate on studies, I needed to focus on studying,
but I ignore her advice. When she cried, I felt so sorry and guilty. I wasn’t
brave enough to looked at her. Then I came to her slowly, hugged her and said:
“I was sorry, mom. I knew that I had made a big mistake. I felt so sorry. Mom,
please forgive me. I promised that I wouldn’t do this again. I was so sorry. I
made you cry.” And she hugged me tight, she whispered: “How couldn’t I forgive
you ? I was just a little disappointed, but I knew, you would know how to fix
your mistake, I love you.” I cried after she said that, just a bit, but I did
cry.
Mom, you gave me everything but you never ask me to pay
back. You are the best, the greatest woman in this world and in my heart. I
love you forever. I am happy when I have you by my side to take care of me, to
protect me and to give me your love. I am happy when I am your daughter. In the
future. I will be an successful adult in life and I can take care of myself.
But in my mother’s eyes, I know that I am always her little daughter as I was.
Love you mom, Love you so much.
(source:personal as well as internet)
Thursday, November 5, 2015
JOURNEY OF MY LIFE
Hi I am Bhavya, I was born on June 30, 1994, in Mangalore, Karnataka India; which is
just the starting point for my journey through life. I grew up slowly. At my childhood i enjoyed a lot. When I was in high school or Pre-University college, I didn't have any seriousness in my studies. But i had a ambition to help society, poor people, uneducated people, children who are working without having education, so on.... Later I joined Adarsha collage for my higher studies. I am really proud to be a student of that collage. Because that collage gave me a good future. I feel like it gave me foundation to build my dream. Because, everyone in that collage gave me a lots of support, encouraged me in different ways. My confidence is increased there. But while coming to my family I faced so many problems, that I couldn't believe that how it occurs and how I faced it. I was mentally suffered from that problems. Now also I am suffering but I am not showing it to outside world. I always smile, because I don't want to show. I want to be different from others. In my life, whatever I wanted/needed I din't get. Because, all decisions of my life was there on other's hand.I want to be a good daughter, sister, wife, mother. I love everybody. I don't had any best friends my life, now also I don't want to have any best friends. Now I joined JKSHIM Nitte Udupi District Karnataka, India for my post graduation MBA. Initially I found difficult to adjust, Now I adjusted. Here I got good, helping friends, seniors, lectures. Till I leave this college everyday I spend good times with my friends, I loose my worries here. I don't get tension here. This is also another good collage in my life. Now I am continuing my post graduation here.
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